I have a passion for helping people discover their ability to respond for what they
truly desire and have the best of what is possible and available.
Alain Phillips is a seasoned professional with over 20 years of experience in helping individuals reconnect with their life’s purpose. Passionate about living in the here and now, Alain has mastered the art of being fully present to his deepest desires and expressing his heart’s truest longings.
With a vibrant spirit, he embraces a life he genuinely loves, dedicated to igniting curiosity, creativity, and passion in others.
Alain’s mission is to guide you in unlocking the power of authentic emotional connection, transforming your intimate, family, personal, and professional relationships into sources of profound fulfillment. He is committed to helping you open yourself to all the possibilities you desire, living with courage, joy, and fulfillment beyond success.
Join Alain in remembering who you truly are and mastering the art of joyful living as you create and manifest a life you absolutely love.
MY STORY
From Adversity to Abundance: My Journey to True Fulfillment
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Life’s most profound truth is that perspective shapes our reality, and we hold the power to choose that perspective. My journey from adversity to abundance is a testament to this truth.
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From a young age, I was faced with challenges that shaped my path. Diagnosed as hyperactive due to a heightened sense of empathy triggered by early trauma, I was different, and I knew it. My father, recognizing my unique sensitivity, introduced me to the power of trusting myself and emotional self-regulation. This ignited a lifelong quest to understand and master the power of emotions. To protect myself from the pain of being different, I developed the identity of “the helper”—a role that allowed me to connect with others while hiding my own vulnerabilities. By the age of 15, I had my first out-of-body experience, which deepened my passion for meditation and breathwork as tools for emotional and mental transformation.
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Guided by my father and uncle, I immersed myself in learning, completing over 30 courses in emotional, spiritual, physical, and personal development before turning 20. Eager to serve others with what I had learned, I pursued a career in law, believing that I could make a difference through legal procedures. But it didn’t take long to realize that my true calling was not in the courtroom but in addressing the emotional conflicts that drive human adversity.
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This realization led me to volunteer as a development instructor in Angola, where I witnessed how unresolved emotional conflict was at the core of human suffering. This experience solidified my commitment to helping others navigate their inner worlds. I returned to Mexico at 24, establishing myself as a life and business consultant and social entrepreneur. My work transformed the lives of thousands of Indigenous people of Maya Culture, and my consulting practice evolved into Resilience Coaching, helping others regulate their emotions and thrive through adversity. Yet, despite the external success, my own unresolved trauma and the identity of “the helper” I had clung to were still haunting me.
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At 31, my life hit a breaking point. I found myself in a toxic, co-dependent marriage, trapped in a cycle of giving without receiving, a dynamic that drained my spirit. This relationship ended in a painful separation when my son was just two and a half years old. Shortly after, I faced a life-threatening health crisis, overwhelming debt, and the devastating loss of my father. These moments of deep despair left me questioning everything. I remember countless nights waking up at 3 a.m., drowning in a sense of emptiness and isolation, wishing it was all just a nightmare. One night, in a moment of complete surrender, I decided to let go of the struggle and embrace whatever was required of me. It was in this surrender that I channeled the first 29 maxims that became the foundation of the Emotional Perspective Coaching Method—a method that not only saved my life but transformed it entirely.
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This method guided me through healing from my health crisis, overcoming financial debt, attracting the love of my life, and rebuilding meaningful relationships with my family. I transitioned from a life of external achievement to one of deep, authentic fulfillment, where success was no longer defined by what I had accomplished, but by the quality of the relationships I nurtured and the joy I felt each day.
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Having experienced this profound transformation, I knew I had to share the Emotional Perspective Coaching Method with others. I refined it into a step-by-step process that helps high-achieving, heart-centered individuals reclaim the fulfillment they’ve sacrificed in their pursuit of success. My life is now characterized by ease, flow, and a deep sense of purpose, free from the old patterns that once depleted me.
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Today, at 46, I am dedicated to guiding others who find themselves in a similar place—successful on the outside, yet yearning for deeper connections and true fulfillment. Through Private Coaching Sessions, Workshops, Organizational Training, and Retreats, I help my clients unlock their true potential and create lives rich with meaning, love, and authentic relationships. My mission is to help you open yourself to the possibilities of profound connection and joy that are waiting for you.
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Join me on this journey of rediscovering who you truly are, mastering the art of being, and creating a life filled with love, purpose, and fulfillment. Let’s make it happen, together.